Peter's funeral had all of those elements, but what made it extra special was that it was almost entirely written by his family, and that two of his granddaughters had the courage to deliver it.
Sarah read us the tribute, in which we learned that Peter had survived being blown up by a V1 rocket during WWII, and that he'd joined the Scots Guards partly because the queue to join the Army at his local recruitment office was shorter than the queue to join the Royal Navy, and partly because he liked the uniform.
Like many soldiers of his generation he served all over the world, from Borneo to Jamaica. He was a great cook, particularly renowned for his curries which is surprising because Peter couldn't stand curry, and he never ate it himself! Not only had he cooked for both the Queen and the Queen Mother during his long career, he had even danced with Princess Margaret, so his was quite a tale...
Sarah delivered it with great aplomb and after we committed his body to its final end, her big sister Jenny read us a poem that Peter had written called 'Cockney Jock'.
Peter had grown up in London, so of course he was an unusual recruit for The Scots Guards. He wrote this poem back in the 1960's and it was actually published in the Scots Guards Magazine in 1968. I don't think their archive is digitally available, so I asked the family if I could publish it here and I am very pleased they said yes.
Some years ago, I won’t say the date,
The Guards Depot I went, to learn of my fate,
The drilling, the shouting, was strange I admit,
But this wasn’t the strangest, no not a bit.
The language was strangest, not dirty I mean,
But different, and funny, not a bit like the Queen.
What made it so awkward and funny you see,
There were 39 others, all Scotsman and me.
Before I joined up, a “piper” was read,
Not some hairy monster who wakened the dead,
The places they came from were strange I do tell,
I couldn’t pronounce them, let alone spell.
There was Auchtermuchty, Kirkintilloch, Mull and Dunoon,
They could have been somewhere away on the moon,
These names sounded funny to a Cockney like me,
Not like ‘Ackney, and Stepney, or Sowf-end-on-Sea.
The Scots I’d been told spoke English so pure,
But awa tattie heed, yer limmer, and dour,
Now really I ask yer, wot can yer do,
Can’t they talk proper, like silly old moo?
There were times I thought, I’d really go barmy,
Or even perhaps, I’d joined the wrong Army,
But as time passed by, I started to learn,
With, it dinna tak me, it must be your turn.
I learnt of the bunnet and to have a few drams,
I learnt why a chuchter wore lang nicky tams,
I learnt of the pudden and hey yoo, geroot,
I’ve even scoffed dumplin, boilt in a cloot.
I’ve laughed and I’ve jibed at them many a time,
But of course the dialect is no worse than mine,
Now when others scoff them, or try to mock,
I say, hey yew, shurrup, cos, noo I’m a Jock.